Know the Signs

These indicators suggest that a relationship may either be abusive or conducive to healing within it:

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Invading 

Privacy

While curiosity is understandable, invading someone’s privacy by inspecting their phone or device is intrusive and signifies a desire for control.

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Threatening
Pets

Intimidating pets by threatening harm, taking away, or abandoning them is coercive behavior and could be indicative of more severe violent tendencies.

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Constant
Criticism

While it’s natural to feel frustrated when mistakes are made, constantly criticizing individuals crosses into the territory of emotional abuse.

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Mind Games

Manipulating or distorting information to make someone feel confused or question their sanity is a clear indication of psychological abuse

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Blaming The Bottle

Indulging excessively in alcohol and drugs should never be justified. Overconsumption of these
substances can steer us away from nurturing and meaningful relationships.

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Controlling Money

Exercising exclusive control over financial matters and making all monetary decisions is indicative of financial abuse.

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Sexual Coercion

Coercing someone into sexual activity or demanding actions they are not comfortable with is a clear indication of sexual abuse.

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Breaking Stuff

Destroying or trashing belongings is a form of intimidation and signifies an abusive dynamic within a relationship.

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Humiliation

While light-hearted teasing can indicate comfort, causing embarrassment or humiliation crosses into emotional abuse territory.

Recognize a signal?

You Can:

Learn about dv

Because every relationship is unique, recognizing patterns of abuse can be a complex task.

Ask for help

Dealing with relationship abuse is a challenging journey.

Help Someone

If you observe these signs within someone else's relationship, your support can make a difference.