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How to Help Someone
Experiencing Abuse
It can be very hard to witness a loved one being abused by their partner. You may feel unsure how to support them or worried that your actions could make the situation worse. These are completely understandable – and valid – reactions.
Domestic violence can indeed be dangerous, and any action or decision should be led by the survivor (your loved one).
Every survivor’s situation is unique, and chatting with an advocate can be helpful.
Speak with a local Advocate
Please consider reaching out to a local domestic violence agency in Colorado or the National Domestic Violence Hotline (800-799-7233) to speak with an advocate about how to start a conversation with your loved one.
Additionally, Consider the following tips
Have a Private Conversation.
Any conversation you have with your loved one should be outside the presence of their partner/others.
Don’t try to be a hero.
Remember that you cannot “rescue” them. Although it is difficult to see someone you care about get hurt, ultimately any action or decision taken should be led by your loved one. It’s important for you to support them and help them find a way to safety and peace in their own time.
